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We didn't know how you could surpass your previous experiences, but you did!

28/8/2026

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Nikki & Cara, ever since the day we met you, over a decade ago ((that went fast) you two have always given us a grand adventure.  Whether it was Portavadie when you turned and whispered "are you ready" before we took off on a canter up a hill; or in Knoydart where you couldn't put me on my favourite horse and gave me the Ferrari, you have always surprised us, tested us, enchanted us and surrounded all of your riders with love.

But this year, you took something that is familiar to everyone who has been to your home at Kintyre and you raised it up into an even more amazing adventure.  Crossing Kintyre was brilliant.  Being on horseback in places where int he past we would have asked you "what's over there", this year you took us there and it was magnificent.

Knoydart was wild, but Kintyre is just as remote with a bit more civilisation thrown in.  Every day you gave us a new surprise, a special beach, a special mountain top, a special place that we will always keep with us.  We didn't know how you could surpass your previous experiences, but you did, and as you say BRILLIANT!  

Much love Cathy & Jeff xxxx

Crossing Kintyre Expedition May 3rd - May 10th 2026 
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Crossing Kintyre Expedition - I can’t think of anything else they will do to top this ride.

28/8/2026

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​I’m an Old Faithful of Wilder Ways.   Day rides, week rides, working holidays, lessons, clinics - they do it all with their unique confident alchemy of horsemanship, connection & chutzpah. Beware.   You’re unlikely to only visit them once!!   
 
The Crossing Kintrye point to point ride, though, rose to the top of my Wilder Experiences.   Which surprised me. I live just across the water.  I know this landscape. I trail ride my own horses in it.   But some kind of magic happens on this ride.   I take my own pony, Charlie, with me and we never fail to learn new things.   This ride it was confidence in canter  - something I’d long since accepted ‘wasn’t his thing’.  And conquering the kinds of challenges up on the steep Scottish slopes that had made me think certain routes back home weren’t an option to me.   As we picked our way through tussocks and bogs, scaled the summit to breathtaking 360 degree views and then courageously coped with what seemed an impossible descent, suddenly the whole world opened up to me.  
 
Layer on to these gifts the joyful company, lasting friendship and astoundingly fantastic food & lodgings along the way, I can’t think of anything else they will do to top this ride.   But I do know for certain that they’ll try!!!!

Until next time
Soggy & Charlie! xx
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Crossing Kintyre Expedition Apr 26th - May 3rd 2026 
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Letting the Wilderness In — A story of trust, courage, and discovering what is possible

10/6/2026

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At Wilder Ways, we often say that the wilderness has a way of revealing exactly what lies beneath the surface. It strips away the noise, the habits, the overthinking, and leaves you with what truly matters — your instincts, your courage, your connection, and the relationships that either hold strong… or ask to be rebuilt.

For Storm, that journey began in September 2025, midway through one of our seven-day horse riding adventure holidays in the wilds of Kintyre. After several days of riding through Hebridean gales, relentless downpours, scaling seemingly impossible climbs and descents, navigating blanket bogs, and effortlessly shifting in and out of gallop across landscapes that looked like something from a Hollywood epic, an idea quietly began to form.

Partnered with Ozzy — one of our much-loved traditional cobs — Storm found something she hadn’t felt in a very long time. Courage. The kind of courage she remembered from her teenage years, galloping ponies across stubble fields with nothing but pure joy and freedom in her heart. Somewhere between the wild terrain, the miles in the saddle, and the raw honesty of the experience, a possibility emerged.

What if she came back… with her own horse?
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​At Wilder Ways, things that may sound impossible have a habit of becoming possible. So by March 2026, that possibility had become reality. Storm returned to the southern end of the Kintyre peninsula, this time with her own young horse, Rambo, in tow.

Rambo, a four-and-a-half-year-old traditional cob gelding, had been part of Storm’s life since he was just eight months old. She had brought him home during one of the most difficult periods of her life — only weeks after losing her first horse. In that moment, she made him a silent promise: to give him the best possible start, to help him grow into a happy, healthy, grounded horse, and to give him every opportunity to thrive. No promises about forever — just a promise of a solid beginning.

But as anyone who has started a young horse knows, the journey is rarely straightforward.
Rambo could be everything Storm had hoped for — soft, forward, willing, light as a feather. And then, seemingly overnight, he could become resistant, frustrated, distracted, stubborn, or simply disengaged. Storm found herself questioning not just him, but herself. Was she asking too much? Too little? Was she helping him — or holding him back?

By the time she arrived at Wilder Ways with Rambo, she carried not only a young horse with potential, but a partnership filled with unanswered questions.
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Together, we embarked on a three-week custom adventure — part holiday, part training immersion, part wilderness boot camp. The objective was simple, yet deeply profound: to discover whether horse and rider truly had what it takes to build a lifelong partnership.
At the start of those three weeks, Storm openly admitted three things: she didn’t fully trust herself to guide Rambo through difficult situations; Rambo, in turn, had learned that she didn’t fully trust him; and in trying so hard to help, she had begun micromanaging him, limiting his ability to think for himself and take accountability.

Then the wilderness got to work.

Day after day, horse and rider were taken far beyond the comfort of arenas, routines, and familiar surroundings. They climbed steep ridges, crossed rough and boggy ground, navigated technical descents, faced unpredictable weather, long days, difficult decisions, fatigue, uncertainty, and moments that demanded absolute honesty from both of them.

And slowly, something began to change.
Storm stopped trying to control every step.
She began allowing Rambo to make mistakes.
To problem-solve.
To take responsibility.
To become accountable for himself.

And when the inevitable scary moments came — and they always do — Storm stayed. Even when her instincts screamed otherwise. Even when it took her a day or two to process what had happened. She stayed.

Before long, she had earned herself a new nickname around the farm:
“Velcro Bum.”
Because no matter what happened… she stuck.
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By the end of those three weeks, the transformation in both horse and rider was undeniable. Storm was learning to trust herself. Rambo was stepping into his own confidence and accountability. Their communication had softened, deepened, matured. The subtlety of energy, intention, timing, and presence — things no textbook can truly teach — had become part of their everyday language.

But perhaps the greatest transformation wasn’t in what they could physically do.
Yes, they could now hack farther, climb higher, and tackle terrain rougher than anything they’d ever encounter back home in the Midlands. But what they had really discovered was something far more valuable.

They had found resilience.
Self-trust.
Partnership.
And a quiet confidence that no challenge ahead would need to be faced alone.

Storm arrived wondering how far she and Rambo could go together.
She left knowing they had already gone farther than either of them thought possible.

And in her own words:
“We may only have proven to the outside world that we can hack longer and over rougher terrain than we’ll ever find at home. But we’ve discovered a resolve, resilience, and understanding here that we might not have found alone in a whole lifetime or thousands of miles — which means we will walk in wonder, not fear, wherever we venture next.”

There is something deeply special about what happens here at Wilder Ways. It’s in the horses, of course. In the wild landscapes. In the miles ridden and the stories shared around the farmhouse table. But more than that — it’s in the space created for growth.

As Storm so beautifully put it:
“More than sheep, horses, pups, leeks, potatoes, chickens and piglets grow here… all things grow here.”

And honestly…
We couldn’t have said it better ourselves.
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Here’s to bringing a little wilderness home. And perhaps more importantly… to letting the wilderness in.
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5 x fully funded places on our Empowerment Studio

20/9/2025

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A gift that will truly keep giving

​We can not tell you how excited we are to launch our new Empowerment Studio not only 6 months early but with 5 free places to give away.
 
How on earth – the generosity of beautiful strangers.       
 
We (Cara & Nikki) first met Andrea when she joined one of our adventure holidays in late August 2025.  During the adventure we spoke much of the power of horses to help humans to heal and grow.  We all shared our own personal stories and we discussed Wilder Ways’ plans for our new Horsemanship Humanship programs.   
 
​At Wilder Ways we are certain our Empowerment Studio will have a positive impact on local people’s lives but the challenge has been securing funding to help those access it who may not be able to afford it personally.  Where the public sector has failed us – this individual, the wonderful Andrea is willing to support the youth in our community from the other side of the world.  Having seen the benefit of time at Wilder Ways first hand, and learning we were struggling to secure external funding, Andrea was determined to help us.
 
For anyone who follows us on socials or has booked with us before, you will know we are passionate about ‘sharing the love’ via our ‘Make a Difference’ and ‘Wilder Ways Wish’ donation schemes.  To date your generosity has resulted in over 1500 native trees being planted on the farm and given Kathryn an unforgettable Wilder Ways experience as she battles terminal cancer.  We are very proud of these achievements which you, our guests, made possible.
 
But Andrea has just raised the bar again.  So here it is - an unbelievable opportunity for 5 local young people to experience our full Empowerment Studio 6-week program completely free of charge.  All you need to do is invest your effort, open your heart and let us, our herd the farm work our magic on the rest.
 
So, if you think our Empowerment Studio is for you – here is how to apply for your chance!
 
Application process
In your own way, tell us why this course would benefit you.  This can be via e-mail, a written document, piece of art, voice note or video.  Please submit to [email protected] or 07826 273 291. 

  • Sept 30th – Application deadline
  • Oct 8th – Places will be awarded
  • Oct 22nd – Empowerment Studio begins
 
Eligibility
  • 13 – 21 years old.
  • Live full time in Kintyre.
  • Commit to 9am-4.30pm on all 6 Wednesdays in the program (Oct 22nd to Nov 26th 2025).
 
For full details on what the Empowerment Studio includes please visit Empowerment Studio - Wilder Ways
 
So what are you waiting for – secure your place and begin your empowerment journey now!​


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Jane's Wilder Ways Testimonial (2025 Season)

30/6/2025

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I booked a week's riding holiday as part of my 70th year's celebrations.  With some trepidation as I wasn't sure I was fit, strong or brave enough,  but was determined to give it a try.  

I've ridden since a small child, It's many years since I've had my own horse, but I have been riding again pretty regularly over the last few years.  But an hour or two at a time, on fairly gentle hacks. So a whole week at Wilder Ways felt like a big step up.

I can honestly say that I have come back a different person,  in a really positive way.  

Firstly,  you never do forget how to ride. Your body really does remember how to do it. The trick is learning to trust that. That is exactly what Wilder Ways taught me.  There were no lessons,  no lectures, just good common sense,  gentle encouragement and calm expectations of my abilities.  

Nikki and Cara matched me with a lovely mare, perfect for my level of expertise and confidence.  Over the week, Raven and I really got to know each other as I was shown a whole new way of looking at everything.  I learned to listen to my body and shut out the negatives that a lot of women carry around.  You know, the, " you're too old", "you can't do it" , "you'll get too tired" , "you'll slow everyone else down " etc, etc. That week in May , I found the inner me that had been in hiding for a while. No longer an ageing granny, but an Amazon! 

I galloped flat out on beaches, climbed my horse up and down steep trails, rode bareback into the sea and swam with the horse under me, did horseback archery at the canter, and re-learned all the wonderful ways to care for my horse. All with the quiet, persistently  positive atmosphere that Wilder Ways exudes. 

I came home feeling empowered.  I still do. And absolutely will do it again.  At 71 next time! 

Jane (2025)

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Horsemanship in the Hills – The tale of one ‘Marksman’

18/12/2024

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As a child I thought horsemanship was something that only happened in arenas by fellas in cowboy hats trying to ‘fix’ problem horses.
Today, I can find horsemanship even where there are no horses!  It’s a way of life.  A way of being, of thinking, of feeling, of acting.  It helps me be the best version of myself and it certainly helps me interact better with people, never mind horses.
So, give me a chance to work with a horse and people in a ‘wilderness arena’ and I’m all over it.
It’s early June 2024.  We’ve just arrived with our herd onto Knoydart – one of our favourite places on earth – and we are chatting with friends in the pub.  Turns out there’s a new guy in town, Marksman of Dyke…fitting on so many levels 😉

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​A 2-year-old Highland gelding, gifted to the community as the next generation of ‘garron’ (stalking pony) for Knoydart Foundation.  A couple of young guys the ‘stalkers’ are tasked with training him but one or two problems have arisen.  The farrier can’t get near him - he won’t catch without food -and he recently trampled a woman.  Ooft.  They sign him up to Wilder Ways Boot Camp.  Little do the stalkers know, Boot Camp is for them, not for the horse.  
Marksman is a highly intelligent and independent young man.  And mighty handsome.  He has evolved over millions of years to perfect his highly tuned senses resulting in an awareness you and I can only dream of.  His nervous system is hard-wired for self-preservation – fight, flight or fawn.  Oh, and he is not a native English speaker, has a top speed of 30mph and weighs nearly half a ton.
​By comparison, the guys (Woody & Lewis) weigh in at under 80kgs, have a top speed of 8mph and do not speak horse.  They do not have eyes on the side of their head and their hearing is shot, literally!  Hardly a fair fight. 
We have just 10 hours of time together over the course of 1 month and no arena.  Their objective = to create a well-mannered pony, who catches on demand, is maneuverable in-hand and broken to the stalking saddle.  No pressure then!
The first 3 sessions we tackle ‘the catch’.  The field is 10 acres and contains 2 other ponies.  As soon as we enter the field, he’s off prancing, tail in the air.  The guys are desperate to reach for the feedbag – stand firm I command.  Over these 3 days, we play that childhood game of ‘you’re getting warmer’.  Running around the field is colder.  When he approaches the gate, he is getting warmer and when he heads to the guys – he’s smoking hot.  The first day, with no halter, we just ask him to stand with us.  Day 2 the game begins again and takes even longer, Marksman is testing the resolve of the menfolk – he is getting to know them.  Day 3, Marksman wins the game, he gets smoking hot quickly.  It’s a win-win.  We put the halter on.  Walk him out the gate, love on him, then instantly return him to the field and release him.  Everyone looks confused. The boys, “WTF, we had him”.  Marksman “Well that was easy”.  Less is often more, particularly in the early days.  I recommend the boys spend some time in the field just chilling out whenever they can.  Take a beer and take in the view.  Let Marksman come and go as he pleases and just love on him if it pleases him.  The value of just ‘being’ with your horse should never be underestimated.  
​​Next, we get to work on manoeuvrability.  Marksman is all over the guys, like literally on top of them.  Someone missed the collision avoidance lesson at foal school.  Again, it’s really the guys who need the insight.  You can only be run over if you allow it.  Time to work on some personal space techniques and body posture.  Like I said, Marksman is highly intelligent, he clocks on immediately.  And the guys do pretty good too - they pick up the ‘rope feel’ and ‘using a stick as an arm-extension’ really quickly.
Like learning any language, the foundation blocks take the longest to grasp and can sometimes be the more boring or frustrating bits.   No one wants to study word order and grammar; we just want to start conversing.  Like learning any language, of course you can skip ahead with your phrase book and get by.  But if you truly want to have understanding for every eventuality, you need to spend time on the foundations.   
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​That being said, on Knoydart we were limited by time, so we did have to keep a march on with our learning.  Thankfully both horse and boys were quick learners and their general approach to life really helped.
The guys are practical fellas.  Happiest in the wild outdoors and naturally observant creatures.  They are well coordinated, confident, hardy and with little fear, and they were eager to make a success of this.  With very little prior horsemanship knowledge, they also did not have a catalogue of ‘bad habits’ to break. 
Marksman is curious.  Still young and un-jaded by life, he was a great big sponge, ready for it.  He is also naturally confident and although a little extroverted, he was keen to seek the 4th ‘F’ first and obtain friendship before fight, flight or fawn.  So given his natural confidence, curiosity and friendliness, the 4th ‘C’ worked a charm.
​In horsemanship ‘consistency’, ‘clarity’ and ‘confidence’ are considered key to success.  We agree.  We just believe ‘creativity’ can be the clincher to a fun, connected and engaging partnership for all.
The wilds were our arena and luckily this was the natural habitat for this horse and these men.  Once we established a soft forward and back up and were able to isolate and move the haunches and shoulders independently (i.e. the basic word order and grammar), we were ready to start forming some pretty cool sentences.
​Pressure creates purpose and we were able to use our environment as the perfect canvass.  Trees make great bending cones or stop markers.  Fallen logs become jumps.  Low branches teach us to duck.  Rivers give us boundaries for ‘send away’ or ‘call towards’.  We used banks, tied up boats, boardwalks, rocks, tents, sand, seaweed, sea!  The list was endless, and this guy took the world on like a hungry caterpillar.
This was not going to be a garron you had to bribe up the hill with sandwiches and wade through water to drag him behind you.  This guy could go ahead, go sideways, climb up the bank to leave room for you on a narrow track, climb down to get below you to make it easier to load the stag on his back.  This guy was useful, and he was having fun exploring the world with his trainers.  And I saw a softness grow in those men.  They liked spending time with Marksman.  The pony-training was no longer a chore, instead, hanging out with this guy was a privilege.    
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​By the penultimate day when we put the deer saddle on him – it really was a non-event.  It’s a heavy pack for a starter, with jangling buckles, long straps and even a crupper.  A strong smell of oil and even a faint whiff of blood.  Marksman never flinched.  He wore it with pride. 
The final day we put it altogether, the boys lead the way and Nikki and I watched on like proud parents at a graduation ceremony.  Marksman caught like a dream, stood confidently to be saddled and then wandered off into the wilds swagging it out over the terrain.  He was amazing.  So much so, we even started leaning across the saddle and introducing some weight to his back.  This horse excited me.
​But my greatest pleasure that day was not the overall progress, but the beauty of watching horse and man figure out each obstacle in the moment; each thinking through what ‘words’ would best convey their intention to each other.  Whilst nothing was actually ‘verbalised’ the communication was quite evident and the results most beautiful.
Marksman headed to the hills the very next day to begin the stalking season.  Initially he carried only his saddle as he built up the mental and physical fitness needed for full days on the hill.   The guys tell me that by the end of the season he started carrying light loads.  
We look forward to catching up with Marksman and the lads during our time on Knoydart in June 2025; to witness their progress, to give them a few new hints and tips to help iron out any teething problems, and to set them up for a successful first full season.  This garron will make his mark on the hills as well as on a few hearts, of that I am sure.   
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- Cara
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Tabby's Volunteering Experience @ Wilder Ways - Summer 2024

24/10/2024

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'​I was a volunteer at Wilder Ways for three unforgettable weeks, and the experience was nothing short of life-changing. I’ve been riding horses for most of my life, but during my time at the farm, I felt as though I truly learned how to ride and care for a horse properly for the first time. The level of detail, care, and love they pour into the herd is something extraordinary, and it was an honour to be part of it.'

​'Each day brought new and exciting challenges. One day, I’d be swimming with the horses or galloping along the beach, and the next, I’d be scratching pigs behind the ears or tending to vegetables in the garden. From lessons on horsemanship to the thrill of shooting arrows from a cantering horse, dullness and boredom simply didn’t exist at Wilder Ways.'
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​'The sense of community was just as special. I’ve made lifelong friends in the other volunteers, and we all came away from the experience with stories to share and memories to treasure. I would wholeheartedly recommend this to anyone who will listen—Wilder Ways is an adventure like no other!'

​- Tabby, Summer 2024

​You can read all about our volunteer placements and how you can become a volunteer with us here.
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Horsemanship - for MY love of play

3/10/2024

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​In this era of buzz words, viral trends and fleeting fads, is horsemanship just another?
 
Since I began my horse obsession 35 years ago, there is no doubt I hear the word horsemanship more often today.  So, what really is horsemanship and what’s the point?  Well, this is my story.
I personally love the concept of horsemanship being the ‘art’ of working with horses.  Of course there is science behind the evolution, physiology and psychology of the horse and there are many top-quality horsemanship programs and academies available to learn the ‘way of the horse’, but I don’t think horsemanship can be simply formulaic? 
 
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Too many times the answer is ‘it depends’ and feel is not something that can simply be acquired on a course or from a book.  Sure, you can learn ‘it’ but mastery takes something less tangible.  Equally, I do not believe horsemanship is magic – though it sometimes appears so.  It takes special attention to detail, creativity and commitment and whilst anyone can achieve anything they set their mind to do, I feel innate nature plays a big role, which I will come back to in a later blog about women in horsemanship.
 
​Why we practice horsemanship and what it achieves for us is really our choice, perhaps a deeper connection, more sophisticated communication, improved gymnastic performance, elaborate tricks, or simply and beautifully a calm, resilient and engaged horse, the opportunities are quite endless.
 

One thing I am certain of, horsemanship is not a new phenomenon.  It would be arrogant to think that horsemanship didn’t have a part in the very domestication of horses 6,000 years ago.  This is not to mention the many civilizations since, who claim to be the godfather of horsemanship.  Whoever was the first, today it is great to see so many more people consciously challenging how they work with horses and trying to improve.  As we say at home, “do your best until you know better, then do better”.
 
Whatever method we follow and whatever our end goals, as I get older, ‘play’ has an increasingly important role for me. ​
​I began riding at the age of 5 and it was all play.  Hobby horses, real horses, barbie horses, gymkhana games and playing out ’black stallion’ on any family visit to the beach.  Horse play was my obsession.  Every weekend and holidays spent on the local yard, I was immersed in horsemanship, the good, the bad and the ugly.  But I don’t recall hearing the word horsemanship until Monty Roberts entered my radar at about 14 years old.  Then I became fascinated by the apparent ‘magic’ of horsemanship as I soaked up whatever I could find wide-eyed and in wonder.  By 17, I was hungrily documenting every whisker twitch and tail swish, though I didn’t entirely understand why.  I just knew I wanted so badly to be brilliant with horses and suddenly the play was gone and I took myself very seriously.  When I think back to those times I laugh out loud, I thought horsemanship was something that happened in the arena.  And then it all ended abruptly.  I left for university and only able to ride on holidays, I felt so disconnected I wanted none of it and I turned my back on horses and my curiosity.  The pain of grief was real.  
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​Aged 30, I had an epiphany with a kick start almost as abrupt as the earlier ending.  I quit my career as a Rural surveyor and went to visit a friend in Canada.  Here I ended up taking a 6-year-old unbroken Arab mare to a 3-day Peter Campbell colt starting clinic.  Looking back, my ignorant arrogance was mind-bending but this single experience was undoubtedly life changing for me.  Peter called me Scotland for the whole clinic.  I later discovered that he thought I would quit, so he couldn’t see the point learning my name.  On the last day he was first to admit he’d underestimated the Scot as he embraced me with a bear hug and a f*@k me Scotland, you hung in there.  I have rarely felt prouder than that moment as I laughed out loud feeling a bit less serious about life and a whole lot ready to play.   
​However, I will never forget just how painful it was to take that step from unconsciously incompetent to consciously incompetent during that clinic.  Sometimes I wish that step had been slightly less public, as I stood in the middle of that dusty arena, in 35 degree heat.  The crowd peered down at me as I struggled to comprehend just how many different ways you could hold a rope whilst Peter repeatedly mocked ‘nope’ at my every attempt and the tears began to fall.  In hindsight, this was my awakening, the only way remaining from the bottom – upwards!

​Being publicly vulnerable can be particularly difficult in today’s society where judgement appears from every corner and if you make a mistake someone is sure to gloat or worse still, post about it.  It sometimes feels like everyone is out to get you and willing you to fall flat on your face.  I’ll remind you; horses are prey animals and perhaps know a thing or two about this feeling.  Vulnerability is not weakness.
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​When I recount those tears at my first ever clinic, they were both of pain and joy.  Pain that I did not know what I thought I knew and joy, for that meant I was ready to learn a whole lot more.  The truth is, once you take that painful step from unconsciously incompetent to consciously incompetent you will have no intention of taking it back, and you will  come to realise this is a gift.  If you always know what you don’t know – you always have an opportunity to find out more. 
 
I came home to Scotland from that clinic in Canada, I ordered a copy of Tom Dorance’s book ‘True Unity’ and I bought my first horse – Ava.  At this point I wish to credit Ava as my ongoing mentor in horsemanship.  Of course, other great people have helped me along my journey, but like no other, this particular horse has ensured that I truly ‘show up’, that I eat regular doses of humble pie and that I never take myself too seriously.  Through a heady mix of frustration, self-doubt, exhilaration and joy (not necessarily in that order) Ava reignited a passion in me which I can now never imagine turning my back on.
​Here my horsemanship journey met a fork in the road.  One way - Ava becomes my muse and mentor.  The other way, Wilder Ways is born and people become my muse and I become their mentor.  Both routes result in and from a love of play.
 
And my own learning journey just keeps picking up pace.  For the last few years, much inspiration has come from attending the Horsemanship Showcase, so I can’t tell how excited we are to be at this year’s event (Horsemanship Showcase - The Horsemanship Event of the Year) to share our stories of empowerment through adventures, for the love of play.
 
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​If you would like to continue to follow my story, keep an eye on this space as I publish my next two blogs in this wee series I am calling ‘For the love of play’.
 
Thanks for being part of my story.
​Keep adventuring, Cara xxx

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Nikki & Echo's Training Journey

27/7/2024

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This is the story of me (Nikki) training a young horse; my first time doing this from scratch by myself and Echo’s first time doing this at all!
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It’s something I’ve always wanted to do but not been sure of my ability, excitedly tapping into my inner ‘Indian Brave’ on the one hand, and struggling with a certain amount of fear on the other.  This has been a challenge. Horses need us to be calm, consistent and confident – fear or self doubt can be none of these things!

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Echo came to us as an 18-month colt, now rising 5.  He is, by nature, gentle and curious.  This makes him a joy to work with.  Though, on the flip side, he is so darn cute you have to be careful not to settle for less than his full potential, just because he looks at you doe-eyed.
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He has run with a herd in big open terrain his whole life.  I think this has been another important factor in his ‘trainability’.  Being around other horses, he has learnt to be a ‘proper’ horse, understanding how they communicate with each other, and has experienced all sorts of enriching environments.  In the early years, I simply peppered in short lessons to build confidence and understanding, such as leading, basic manoeuvring instructions, standing tied in the barn, and essential care like vaccinations, farrier and dentist visits.  I always say his ‘serious’ training started this year as a 4-year old, but I should not undervalue how important the early days were in just raising a well-rounded, resilient young man, ready to begin his career as a ridden horse.
​His ‘higher education’ started with a range of groundwork exercises drawn from our (mine and Cara’s) experience of various natural horsemanship techniques we have studied over the years.  These exercises were to create better communication, to teach ‘how to want to learn’ and gymnastic movements to increase his flexibility and strength. I particularly loved a younger trainer called Joe Midgeley www.joemidgleyhorsemanship.co.uk whose basic technique just made sense to me, simple yet effective. One of Joe’s key ideas was to use pre-signals, so that before using physical pressure such as aids, the horse can learn to follow the lightest of instructions and develop responsiveness.  This is a great trick. More recently Sean Coleman, www.appliedhorsemanship.com, provided invaluable guidance in teaching him how to learn with motivation, which included starting Echo at canter in the arena. 
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Echo and I spent a lot of time on our relationship, we would go for walks together, exploring the hills around our farm, or just stand together in the field having a scratch.  This connection and investment in our relationship budget made his training much quicker and more effective – as he sought spending time together, trusted me and understood that relaxing time together was a reward.
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He learnt games, movements and simple lessons such that by the time we came to tack and riding, these were just ‘today’s lesson’ rather than a big deal.  The first few times I put the saddle on we just went for walks together up the hill.  I first rode him in the arena, just a couple of times to master the reins.  The switch from halter to reins was one of the few things that confused him a little, but we worked it out together.  Riding outside the arena was really very straightforward – our favourite hill walks from the early days had paid off - and he showed confidence, trust and curiosity.  
Because of this, after only three hacks (6 rides in total), we decided to take him with us on our annual migration to the Knoydart in the West Highlands, one of our most beautiful and challenging rides.  Within a week he was climbing mountains, swimming in the sea, cantering on an open beach and jumping small ditches.  Oh, and did I mention how he got there!  He went in a lorry for the first time, a 6-hour drive, followed immediately by a 1hr crossing on a landing craft boat!  He took it all in his stride – such a legend.

For me, one of the best parts of Knoydart was seeing him gain in maturity – we like to call it empowerment through adventure – or learning on the job.  From shyly stepping in the hooves of the lead horses, he was starting to pick his own way and trust in himself as well as in our partnership.  I honestly couldn’t be more proud of him.

After 6 weeks on Knoydart, we came home and he seems different, older, wiser, fitter, stronger, and I would even go as far as to say he looks proud of himself!  Of course, one has to always be careful not to overwhelm a young horse, but I also think we don’t need to baby them, especially when they are curious – this we should nurture and empower.  This morning, Echo and I had our first play date in 2 weeks and he was a joyous, cheery, playful boy – I hope he never loses this.
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I want to thank Echo for being my student and my teacher, I could not have wished for a better first.

- Nikki 
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Sean Coleman Clinic at Wilder Ways - Clara Glynn's Blog

27/7/2024

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I signed up for a Sean Coleman clinic at Wilder Ways because my friend was going, I didn’t really have any expectations, it just felt like an interesting thing to do.  It turned out to be a brilliant experience.   Wilder Ways, if you’ve never been there, is a magical place.  Tucked away in Kintyre, it feels like a world of it’s own.  Nikki and Cara were very welcoming, wise and dryly funny.  And the food is completely ace, which is an underrated but essential part of a great horsey weekend.
 
I love to ride, but I work, and I’ve got three children, so I tend to get to the field, saddle up and go, I’ve never had, or made, time for non ridden work.  So learning how much you can teach your horse on the ground, and how much that can benefit your relationship with him, was a real eye-opener.  In the morning Sean would do a big theory session before we’d head down to the arena.  The first day was all ground work, lots of flags, which me and my horse Mac had never used before.  The second day we did some ground and some ridden work.  It was all good.

Sean has an ability to size up a horse, and communicate with it, that is fascinating to watch.  Mac really benefited.  At the beginning of the weekend Sean asked us all what we wanted to work on.  Mac is what we politely call a reluctant loader (he has also on occasions in this context been called a wee shite).  It’s something we really struggle with.  Sean trained him, teaching Mac that he had to work when he was away from the trailer, firm but very calm. In about 90 minutes he had my horse - who previously thought trailers were the terrifying work of the devil - popping in to relax.  When Mac  self loaded, Sean unclipped him and Mac stayed in the trailer for 10 minutes before wandering out.  Now Sean had been working Mac  hard, and there had been moments where it seemed a bit much, and I had to sit on my hands not to step in and say take it easy.  But astonishingly when Mac came out of that trailer, he didn’t walk over to me, or the other horses, he walked over to Sean, as if to say hi boss, what are we doing next?  My horse recognised someone who really knew what they were doing and appreciated it as much as I did.
 
The loading looms large for me, because it was transformational.  Since that weekend I have a horse who loads.  He quite often takes longer than I’d like, but I can now get him places in a trailer without worrying.  

- Clara Glynn   
 

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